Summary Translation By Lotuschef
The story is about a beautiful lady that reaches 30 years of age and still single.
Despite having many boyfriends, the moment marriage were mentioned, the intended partner died or critically ill or permanently disabled.
She came to GM Lu for moding-blessing to aid her course.
After 3 such moding-blessing, still no effect.
GM felt something amiss.
So he asked his Principal Yidam.
The problem lies with the lady's first boyfriend who was engaged with her to be married. He died in an accident before marriage.
Thus he hang around her as a Guarding Spirit and perceiving himself as her husband, he prevented her from getting married whenever a potential candidate comes too close, by causing incidents to break up the relationship.
1. GM handed over this boy-friend's spirit to Chakarvatin and also did Merits Dedication of chanting sutra for Bardo Delivery.
2. Armour protection for the Lady.
3. Give her Moding Blessing.
After these, the lady got married and sent invitation to the wedding reception to GM, but GM didn't attend.
GM also heard that she also got pregnant and was happy for her.
GM concluded that as long as can open up the [Knot], then can be successful.
I had a similar experience with the a Ex-spouse's spirit of this lady that died from a motor-bike accident leaving behind 2 kids.
The wife was into a relationship with a fellow student, WN and they had a child too.
But things got worse and worse for both.
To maintain the children, both of them work long hours and hardly see each other.
When I first met WN, back in 2009, before being ordained, he has a very dark aura like the Dead.
His story is told in this blog.
Somehow, his cousin mentioned an ex-husband and I got a "Spark"!
The Spirit of the ex-husband causing trouble!
So I taught him to negotiate with this spirit and while he was doing so, GM gave me message that the spirit is willing to accept a Bardo Delivery and leave.
So I did a Bardo Delivery for this spirit!
YES! we need to seek the Root of the Causative Factor in order to Truly Help the person or persons involved!
Om Guru Lian Sheng Siddhi Hom
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