No Good No Bad!

Good actually means benefits Self & Bad means detrimental to Self.
Recently met YF and I advice him to watch his blood Cholesterol!
(He knew his problem and already monitoring regularly.)
Then I advised him about STRESS - The Silent Killer!
We were having lunch and he stopped eating completely.
Well, as long as he cuts down his work load learn to live more carefree, he will be find with relevant medical treatment.
Now why has he become a workaholic?
He has become real successful but he only has one day a month with his family.
The Drive for success naturally also comes with negatives sentiment like ruthlessness and to some extend mean and selfish!
I can see that he will be a healthier and warmer person in the future anyway.


Now, JR took my words and add on saying he can already see what I said about YF's character & .......
I counseled JR when he was going through a divorce and advised him to let go and maintain a good relationship for his kids' sake.
BUT, some petty and mean counsel probably taught him to quit so he has no income and don't need to pay child support !
One evening he joined us for desserts and JR gave us a Fantastic Speech of his abilities!
He started to ask:
Fashi, why.? - I stopped him. Do not use WHY - because in most context it means comparison which ends in disputes!
He then said, he can feel something going to happen and it happened!
Haha! I told him that his heart's demon made things happened to lead him into their arms!
He then said "He can see" - means he read others!

Well, if you have similar trend of thoughts seek help or start to chuck out everything and start cultivating from scratch!

Now, to those that were witnesses to the above and distant yourself from YF, and get "Hooked" by JR - you still have a long long way to go to realization and best don't waste you precious time on the JR of this world.
You should motivate self to grasp more dharma principles and learn to execute or apply them.

I will also refrain from giving advice to individuals with bystanders or audiences.

So best, One to One!

When people are not ready for Dharma Depths, best keep them out, else they harm themselves.

O! GM LU said that ONLY when you are fully enlightened then you can really use your enlightenment to help others.
Else you are creating negatives and mislead those that fall for you falsehood!


With metta

Om Guru Lian Sheng Siddhi Hom
Lama Lotuschef