AA's mom started a monologue immediately after she told her that she has taken on post-graduate studies for the next year, scolding her non-stop!
Question: do you not support your child when he/she wants to study and enhance their knowledge and also skills so that they can earn better income and be more confident to be self sufficient and independent?
CONTROL? in these days is really Out of date!
AA's mom should be glad that her child is keen to put herself through post graduate studies and not ask for funding.
Let me tell a story.
MM chose to study Veterinary Medicine when she was in Secondary 3. She went round finding the information to take up this course as this field is not offered in Singapore Universities.
I went down with her to a fair by IDP, representing Australian Universities.
We got all the information ready and informed my spouse and he went berserk & shouted and yelled at us.
Few days later, he shouted at us again and said why can't MM study Obstetrics & Gynecology or Pediatrics, as per his various sisters, these draw large income!
He asked: How long more do I have to pay for your studies?
A tearful MM answered: Can you treat them as a loan?
Question: His money? Definitely not!
He came from a poor family and his father has 4 wives and more than 30 children!
His mother not well educated and don't work after she hooked on to this 60+ years old man, which kept her as a 3rd wife.
Her dad is an opium addict which forced her to go work as a tea-lady in some tim-sum joint.
Money to some, are the be all & end all of their very existence, agree? :)
Some just can't understand how to be supportive as their parents don't seem to care for them at all.
As a 3rd wife, can you imagine her consternation when the 2nd wife passed away and the husband brought home the 4th wife, a foreigner and legally married her, so that she can stay in Singapore.
Both the 3rd & 4th wives continue to give birth and there are 2 younger ones after my ex, which is the youngest of the 3rd wife.
From the Karmic angle, Who owes Who? & Who hurts Who?
One scary thingy that I remembered was that upon the 1st death anniversary of her eldest son, the 3rd wife went crazy when the 4th called her and send condolences.
However, she somehow said that their spouse said that he loves her (4th wife) the most amongst all his wives.
She, 4th wife, died within 6 months after this statement from Alzheimer!
I found 4th wife's and her children's bio-data in a diary of my ex, months after he deserted us.
I alerted the 4th wife's children about these.
I was a victim of black-magic cast by evil practitioners hired and paid for by my ex.
I knew how much suffering it is to suddenly be seize by their evil forces, like feeling someone holding my heart and squeezing hard and then release and squeeze again.
The Fish Net Charm that I also shared previously seems to keep all under their evil control, so that all victims mindlessly obey.
A parent that harms his own children with Black magic?
Worse than the one that don't support her child's pursuit of enhancement studies, agree?
Dear all, be supportive if you truly love your kids. :)
Cheers all
Om Guru Lian Sheng Siddhi Hom
Lama Lotuschef
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